The Farrell Family

For a good laugh...

2011-08-22T21:03:00.007-04:00

Kelsy asked Josh if he would play the Wii with her while the boys took a bath...little did he know, it wasn't the game he was expecting to play! Is it dancing or convulsing?! Just kidding, sweetie! You know I love your moves!

And here's the view from the front!

You know you're a REDNECK if...

2011-08-18T22:06:00.003-04:00

...you're rigging a tree in your backyard...at 10:00 at night...

To hoist a truck axle into it!

Yep...That's my hubby and his buddy, Josh, trying to move an axle out of the bed of his truck. This is the second time I've had an ENORMOUS car part hanging from this poor tree, the first was an engine. These boys and their Bronco rebuilds are a trial to see just how much patience I have been blessed with....on the other hand, their innovation of using what they have when the proper tool is not available is quite impressive!

HELP!!! I was drugged!!!

2011-08-16T21:32:00.006-04:00

I went to my first conference of a new school year today...it felt a little strange, good, but strange. Since being at home, its been a long time since I've sat through workshops. The keynote speakers today were awesome. Mr. Jim Grant shared this cute little anecdote with us....see if it fits you!

DRUGGED

The other day, someone at a store in our town read that a Methamphetamine lab had been found in an old farmhouse in the adjoining county and he asked me a rhetorical question, “Why didn’t we have a drug problem when you and I were growing up?”

I replied, I had a drug problem when I was young: I was drug to church on Sunday morning. I was drug to church for weddings and funerals. I was drug to family reunions and community socials no matter the weather. I was drug by my ears when I was disrespectful to adults. I was also drug to the woodshed when I disobeyed my parents, told a lie, brought home a bad report card, did not speak with respect, spoke ill of the teacher or the
preacher, or if I didn’t put forth my best effort in everything that was asked of me.

I was drug to the kitchen sink to have my mouth washed out with soap if I uttered a profanity. I was drug out to pull weeds in mom’s garden and flower beds and cockleburs out of dad’s fields. I was drug to the homes of family, friends, and neighbors to help out some poor soul who had no one to mow the yard, repair the clothesline, or chop some firewood, and if my mother had ever known that I took a single dime as a tip for this kindness, she would have drug me back to the woodshed.

Those drugs are still in my veins and they affect my behavior in everything I do, say, or think. They are stronger than cocaine, crack, or heroin; and, if today’s children had this kind of drug problem…

America would be a better place! God bless the parents who drugged us.

I'm hoping that the students I teach this year have been "drugged!"

Like Mother, Like Daughter

2011-08-15T14:17:00.004-04:00

Last summer, Kelsy cut and donated her hair...

this summer, she said it was my turn!

What a great example she is to me!

How did you spend your day?

2011-08-08T16:03:00.003-04:00

For one little boy, it was spent discovering the sensation of needing to peepee!

Petey went peepee on the potty for the first time yesterday followed today with 3 times so far... It was so cute to hear him yell from upstairs, "Mommy, peepee!" and to run up there to find him squeezing his little weewee. I picked him up, ran to the bathroom, and Woohoo!!! He made it!!! One small step for man, one HUGE leap for Petey Boy!!

The beginning of our journey through potty training!

And for those of you wondering how my first week of "Mission: August Weightloss" went...exactly 5 lbs gone! {This week: increase the exercise!}

A Bet is not really a Bet

2011-07-31T22:10:00.003-04:00

While in LA, my "brother in love", Ben, and I decided to see who could lose the most weight in the month of August. Now, in a bet, there's gotta be something to win...so if Ben won, I would watch his children 5 times for up to 3 hours so he could spend quality time with his wife. If I win, I would get to keep is '03 mustang cobra for a week!

After the bet was made, I thought about it and Ben has a lot more lbs. to lose so I suggested we base it off of percent of body weight lost...sound fair, right?! Ben was completely against any changes...once you set the terms its done! I said OK, I understand that. Well, later the same day, he wanted to change the terms...but wait! The terms are set, no changes, right?! Not for him, if the terms don't change, the bet's off! WHAT!

Anyways, to make a long story a little shorter, the bet is currently off! Blah, blah!

However, this bet got me thinking...how much weight could I really lose in a month if I set my mind to it? Well, I'm gonna find out! Check in next Monday to see the results of week 1!

Long Time....

2011-07-29T21:37:00.003-04:00

So, it's been almost 3 months since my last post! Wow! That's a long time! I guess going back to work, working on my master's, being a mom of three, wife, and all the other hats I have been wearing kind of took precedence over my blogging. Well, here's a quick entry about our recent trip to Louisiana and Florida.

Ok, so mostly photos of our trip but hey! I gotta start somewhere! As my friend Robin stated on her FB status today:

"it's not in the falling that you fail - it's in the failing to get back up."

I'm getting back on the blogging horse and trying again!!!

Outer Banks....Spring Break

2011-05-09T17:12:00.009-04:00

And since I'm on here and I haven't updated our blog in a month....a few pics from our camping trip over spring break.

Can you see it? Kelsy's sand spur stuck to her leg?

Home Sweet Home!

Mistress Mary

2011-05-09T17:06:00.005-04:00

Mistress Mary, quite contrary
How does your garden grow?
With silver bells and cockle shells
And pretty maids all in a row.

This is our kindergarten nursery rhyme for the week. The class decided to compare how my garden is growing...check previous posts for before pictures.

Let's Play Ball!

2011-04-10T10:58:00.003-04:00

J.J. chose to try baseball this season instead of soccer. This is his team, the Nationals, marching in the Aragona-Pembroke Little League Opening Day Parade! Let the games begin!!! {J.J. is missing his first game today because it is the Sabbath, which he says that Heavenly Father will be more happy with him for the sacrifice and Heavenly Father is more important than baseball. May he always feel this way!}

My New Wheels

2011-04-08T23:26:00.004-04:00

My 22 year old truck has had better days...notice it in the background? The driveway is normally occupied by Caroline's van, with mine off to the side. The old F250 sees the driveway for repairs/maintenance. Well, it has been in the driveway now for about a week...completely undrivable. We've been planning on buying a newer truck for me, but were anticipating it being another 6-12 months from now. The a fore mentioned broken F250 pretty much forced our hands. As much as I've been wanting a new truck I certainly have not been in a hurry to have a payment. After a full day of driving around most of Tidewater (southeast) VA, we took a 3 hour road-trip to Warrenton, VA (aka da boonies!). We drove up together in Caroline's van, but drove home in 2 vehicles.....

Meet my 2005 Ram 2500. I am the second owner and it has only 33,500 miles! If anyone cares, or knows what it means, the truck has the 5.9L Cummins Turbo-diesel, auto trans, 4 wheel drive, all power options, and a small lift with 33" tires.....and some bling (big ol 18" rims). It drives great, is a smooth ride (10 times nicer/smoother ride than old red) and has tons of power. Would you believe this huge beast will pull down 21mpg at 70mph?! The whole family loves it and I anticipate it being a at least a 10 year truck!

Good Girl!

2011-04-02T21:07:00.003-04:00

The other night Josh and I got on the topic of dating, mostly because Kelsy has a few admirers at school. I asked Kelsy "What's a good age to start dating?"

Kelsy: "I don't know, mom."
Me: "Well, what do you think?"
Kelsy: "25?"
Josh: "That's my girl!"

Can we get this in writing so we can hold her to it during the teenage years?!

{I know that a few of my posts lately have been kid quotes, but dang! They're just so adorable!}

A Place to Call Home

2011-03-15T13:37:00.005-04:00

Yesterday I began substitute teaching in Virginia Beach...trying to get into the system for a contract teaching position next year. Josh is watching Petey at home on the days he is able. Well, when I came home from work, look at what my boys had built me!

Now my little sprouts have a place to lay their roots! {And this is only a very few of them!}

Making Connections

2011-03-02T17:09:00.002-05:00

This week and next, Josh is attending a certification class for the fire department. He told JJ this morning that he was going to school, too.

Josh called to say he was on his way home this afternoon. And the conversation went like this....

Me: "JJ, Daddy's on his way home"
JJ: "On the bus?"
Me: "What?"
JJ: "Is Daddy riding the bus home?"
Me: "Why would Daddy be riding a bus home? He drove his truck."
JJ: "Well, I ride the bus home from school and Daddy went to school today."

The simple associations our kids make!

And Girls will be Girls!

2011-02-18T20:45:00.010-05:00

After the pizza, cake, and ice cream....

Came the make-up, clothes, and fashion show! Complete with music, runway lights, and strikin' a pose!

Boys will be Boys

2011-02-17T20:48:00.005-05:00

Daddy working up top, Petey working down below!

I can reach places daddy can't...

Our boys will DEFINITELY know their way around a truck!

Where is she?!

2011-02-13T20:04:00.010-05:00

The baby we use to carry around on our hips?

The toddler who use to put her bottle out at night for the milk man?

The girl who loved sitting on daddy's lap?

She's become a

thoughtful...

talented...

helpful...

real, true American Girl!

Happy Birthday, Kelsy!

"Mom, I may grow up but I'll always be your baby." -Kelsy, 2/13/11

I Make This Look Good!

2011-02-08T15:32:00.003-05:00

And the award for the ugliest hat goes to.....

Petey Farrell

{His mother HATES this hat but he LOVES it!}

Student of the Month

2011-01-20T12:34:00.006-05:00

Yesterday, Josh and I had the privilege of joining {as well as surprising} Kelsy at her Student of the Month Celebration. The students do not know until the morning of the celebration that they are chosen. She was so super excited when she walked into the cafeteria!

Her Certificate:

Kelsy and Mr. Sullivan, Asst. Principal at Luxford Elementary:

The best part....a yummy Krispy Kreme Doughnut!

Petey liked that part too!

Great Job, Kelsy!!! Keep being the amazing girl that you are!

Denver....and from there on

2011-01-15T17:02:00.008-05:00

Josh finished our last post with us heading to Denver on Saturday night...

We spent much time in the car striving to find the Denver, Colorado temple. When I googled the address, I got the wrong temple (not an LDS one) and landed us in a not so hot part of town. However, because of my mistake, we got to see Mile High Stadium where the Denver Broncos play.

And yes, we did make it to the temple... but I was a little disappointed. The DC Temple is lit up at night and, although I noticed it was equipped for it, the Denver Temple was not. :( Oh well. Its beautiful either way! Shoot, what temple isn't gorgeous?!

We headed for downtown Denver where we spent most of the evening at the 16th Street Mall. They've completely shut one street off and have built sidewalks and courtyards with shops along it that runs a least 4 blocks. We were able to see a spray paint artist, bagpipes, and a cultural chant...not exactly sure what culture, but cool all the same! Unfortunately, we don't have any pictures because I thought I had left the camera in the car. Only to find out that when we sat down for dinner at Hard Rock Cafe, it had been in my purse the whole time! DANG IT! Just another....oh well.

On Sunday, we attended church with the 17th Ward. This was the ward where Josh was a greenie and then returned later in his mission to serve there again. And what a pleasant surprise...its also the ward my friend, Chancy, attends!

After church, we were invited over for dinner with a family Josh has great memories of. The Grissoms are amazing! This is Sis. Grissom and her daughter, Fayra (she wasn't too excited about the pic...hehe). Unfortunately, we found out that Bro. Grissom had passed very unexpectedly in 2004, however, Sis. Grissom is just as lively and wonderful as Josh remembers. Fayra and I really hit it off, Sis. Grissom swears we're kindred spirits from before. They even offered for Josh to stay with them if/when he goes back out for the interview.

Not all of Sunday was as enjoyable. Upon returning to our hotel and watching a little news, we found out that 1800 flights out of Atlanta had been canceled for Monday....this included ours! Although, Josh welcomes the opportunity to be in Colorado for an extended period of time, we were very ready to be reunited with our kiddies and they with us! So, much stress and tension occurred for a period of the night as we spoke with the airline, hotel, and car rental and made plans to return home at the earliest time, Tuesday.

Monday was spent having a lazy morning, traveling to Castle Rock Outlets {oh, yes! Outlets less than 30 minutes from Springs!} While there we looked for some snow appropriate shoes for me {guess flip flops don't cut it}. No luck with the shoes but Josh got hooked up with an amazing deal on a Snowboard Jacket {less than $50 for a $260 jacket! Score!} And he says he hates shopping! Then off to a movie and back to the hotel to pack!!!

It took over 13 hours to get home on Tuesday but we made it! And now the anticipation of an email from Springs Fire Dept. to let us know about the interview. {by next weekend, I'll either have a super excited hubby or a very depressed hubby}

More of Colorado

2011-01-10T13:39:00.008-05:00

Friday was spent in Colorado Springs. The morning started with my CPAT (Candidate Physical Abilities Test) which was pass/fail.....I passed of course. Afterwords, we drove around some of the neighborhoods in the areas that I served and also visited and got re-acquainted with two families I was pretty close with. The city has changed, growing significantly.

Are those houses on a hill? The only hills back home are overpasses and landfills....literally!

While driving through one particular neighborhood, we were astonished to see deer roaming about, even causing us to stop and allow them to cross the street! I think we saw around 12-14 deer, including this buck just chilling in a front yard.

Saturday started with my written/behavior test with Colorado Springs Fire Dept. I was one of approximately 400 people testing that morning, the third of three tests. The C-Springs HR person stated that 1250 people would be tested for 22 jobs. I felt very confident in about 3/5 of the test, so as long as I am in the top 2% of testers, I am in!

After the test, my wife and I visited a couple of the sites in the C-Springs area. We went to Manitou Springs, a historical mining town at the foot of Pike's Peak. While there we had lunch at a local pub/restaurant and hit some of the tourist traps along the main drag. A short distance from Manitou is Garden of The Gods, a picturesque park filled with reddish/orange rock formations. In the park, we did some mild hiking and picture taking. It was especially fun for me to show my wife around one of the memorable spots I visited while on my mission.

I've always known my wife is a strong woman, but she displayed her brute strength by holding up this giant boulder!

From Garden of The Gods, I spontaneously decided we would visit Denver.

Adventures in Colorado

2011-01-07T23:29:00.010-05:00

A view of Pike's Peak from Woodland Park

We arrived in Denver wed at midnight, followed by a drive to C-springs about 1.5 hours away. Thursday was a day of adventure as I took Caroline on a long tour through the Rocky Mtns. Our tour started in Woodland Park, a small mtn town just west of C-springs. From there, we drove to Cripple Creek known for its casinos. The above photo is just outside of Cripple Creek. Our next destination was the prison town of Canon City, via CR 67 a windy road through the mtns.

We later learned why the map key showed the road in alternating white and grey....it means unpaved and maybe seldomly traveled, as shown by one of the three other travelers we encountered in the 24 miles of unpaved driving.

We were fortunate though, to find a rest area while traversing the quite drive and glad to know that outhouses are not a thing of the past!

It was really fun to encounter 2 tunnels bored right through solid rock. We have several tunnels under the water in VA, but this was our first through a mountain. I was excited to drive through such a tunnel, but not nearly as excited as my wife who had to stand in it and get a photo.

We eventually made it to Canon City, then on to Alamosa via Salida. In Alamosa we were blessed enough for me to recall where a member of the church there lived that I had grown to know rather well, Brad Mortensen. He was very welcoming and had us into his home. While there, we were able to get re-accounted, which was quite fun. After the Mortensens' home we met up with Mike and Amber Hartman. Mike was a young single adult while I was in Alamosa as a missionary and he hosted the pig roast farewell the night before I left Alamosa in March 2001. We then enjoyed quality time during our 2.5 hour drive back to northern C-springs.

3 of 3

2011-01-01T01:15:00.010-05:00

Blog 3: Winter Storm?!

Total Snowfall: 14 inches...a whole lot for Virginia Beach!

I'm so unprepared for this weather...Josh asked if I had boots and I said "Sure, but they all have heels!" Tennis Shoes don't work so well when you're getting pulled behind a bronco on a sled!

Yes, pulled behind a bronco! Virginia Beach closes the only real hill to sled on when it snows....go figure! So Josh improvises by tieing a rope to the back of the bronco. Last year, we had a cheap boogie board which fell apart after a few runs. This year, our neighbor gave us a real snow sled a couple of weeks ago so it held together quite nicely. We met up with a few friends and each child took their turn!!

Even Daddy!

Our friend, Doug, showed off doing 360 spins and jumping speed bumps! Kelsy and his daughter, Charlotte, were totally thrilled!

The "Daddys" built a snowman while the kids mostly stood by freezing!

Did you notice JJ was nowhere in these pics?! He spent most of the time shivering in the bronco! Yep, he's a little....well, not like his daddy who loves this weather! But he enjoyed the hot chocolate!
Even Buster got out and enjoyed the snow!

2 of 3

2011-01-01T00:53:00.009-05:00

Blog 2: Christmas Day

Kelsy and JJ woke up, climbed on the bed with me, and opened their stockings. Then it was off to my mom's house. So we ate lunch and unfortunately I don't have pictures of the insanely long table that holds our family....I'll have to get those from my mom and post later. After lunch came the greed of gifts...with grandkids eagerly waiting!

Petey was so excited!!

But I think he liked Uncle JD's present the most....Jack in the Box

Then it was off to the Fire Station where Josh was working...

We ate another BIG meal with the firefighters and opened more presents with Josh's family...

How many kids can say they spent their Christmas at the Fire Station sliding down the pole?!

1of 3

2011-01-01T00:40:00.008-05:00

My goal for 2011....to stay up to date on blog posting about our family's happenings.

My Attempts to catch up:

Blog 1: Christmas Eve

The kids and I went and visited the newly laid gravestone for my dad. We placed flowers and Kelsy wrote a letter to Granddaddy.

Then it was off to Gramme's house for the traditional Christmas Eve Gathering!!!

Gramme teaching Aunt Annie how to make the leaves for the candy strawberries...one of granddaddy's favorites!

Aren't my kids growing up!

Tons of fun was had but the best was watching Kelsy be determined to stay up to meet Santa...when I got up at 12:30 she was out cold! But she slept on the couch just waiting....
Next post 2 of 3....Christmas Day!

Merry Christmas!

2010-12-25T21:08:00.001-05:00

While the kids are studying at school...

2010-12-16T09:45:00.007-05:00

Josh and Petey decided to enjoy the first snow fall...

and Petey's new found love "nobaw"

Play commenced again once Kelsy and J.J. got home and what better way to warm up than with homemade hot chocolate!

We normally don't get snow until the end of January but here we are with our first snow day of the school year before Christmas....is this a snapshot of the upcoming winter?!

Its almost that time...

2010-12-11T15:08:00.004-05:00

Yep....he's almost ready! At least he'll sit on the potty now....it took a long time to get to this point. Next stop, pee pee in the potty!

After 10 years....

2010-12-06T22:04:00.003-05:00

My Virginia Teaching License expires June 2011 so since I've been at home the past two years, I haven't had the opportunity to get the continuing ed credit I need to renew it. {And this is something I definitely don't want to expire!} My only option, taking two college courses. After much research and prayer, Josh and I decided that it was time....

On December 2, I started my Master's program for Teaching English to Students of Other Languages. Its pretty cool. The entire program is online, 1 course per 8 weeks, I can take up to a 29 day break in between classes without penalty, and if I work straight through, I'll have my Master's from Grand Canyon University in April 2012!

I'm currently Licensed K-12 Mental Retardation, Learning Disabled, and Emotional Disturbance. When I'm finished, I'll add the endorsement of PreK-12 ESL. Yep...even with job cuts in the education field, I think they'll always be a need for me!

Every kid has to have one!

2010-11-20T09:40:00.004-05:00

I had plans of having the kids help clean their rooms this morning....obviously they had other plans!

{Notice the little foot sticking out from behind the container....how adorable is that!}

Its a good thing Halloween's only once a year!

2010-11-15T19:11:00.003-05:00

Cause otherwise we may want to play witches and broomsticks more often!

Kelsy and JJ were playing when Kelsy swung around and NAILED JJ in the eye with the end of the broom...

Two days later...

Needless to say, I have postponed family pictures!

Tough Times

2010-10-31T22:54:00.004-04:00

So, I have kind of procrastinated getting back into blogging. Mostly because I didn't want to write this one.

If you haven't noticed, my blog stops on day 3 of our vacation. Well, on day 4, I received a call from my sister....I think probably the hardest call she's had to make and I've had to receive. My dad became eternally cancer free on October 13 when he returned home to his Father in Heaven. After much discussion with Josh, we decided for him and the children to continue with the rest of the vacation as planned until arrangements were made. Josh and his Uncle Mark quickly found me a flight home. I am grateful that we did so since I was able to stay with my mother for the next 4 days and spend all my attention helping her.

Ok, so I'm done typing since the screen is now blurry from waterworks. Maybe later I can write a post expressing my love for my daddy...

love you, daddy!
- Your Baby Daughter

What a legacy this man has given!

Day 2 and 3 - Birthdays and Bayou

2010-10-11T23:11:00.002-04:00

Yep, I was so super exhausted last night that I decided to go to bed instead of blog...so tonight, you get 2 days in 1! {and in slide show form}

Day 1 - Uncle Mark's House

2010-10-09T21:44:00.016-04:00

After 16 hours of driving, we made it to Louisiana! Kids act so silly when sleep deprived!

However, we eventually made it to Josh's Uncle Mark and Aunt Barbara's house where we will be staying the next few nights. They live in a suburb of New Orleans which I'm am super excited to see again. Josh and I came to visit the year after we were married but haven't been back since.

JJ was super excited about his sleeping arrangements...not only was he going to sleep in a cool loft {and yes, I know the shutter got stuck}

but he was sleeping with the big boys in a boy's paradise *video games and guitars*

Kelsy was in awe of cousin Margaret's webkins collection....this is only a small portion of her stash. Then it was time to break out Uncle Mark's old time arcade game.

I think the arcade is a little rusty....Uncle Mark and Josh spent a good 45 minutes fixing it after maybe 15 minutes of play!

Thanks Dad and Uncle Mark!

I'm not sure who had more fun on it, JJ or Josh?!

Stay tuned for more Farrell Fun Week!!! Tomorrow....Surprise Party for Grandma T and Petey's 2nd Birthday!!! **Squeal of Excitement**

Because two fell in love...

2010-09-15T22:03:00.006-04:00

Started out as two young adults....

Decided to add a few kiddies...

9 years later....One Eternal Family!
{maybe a little dysfunctional at times but we are ETERNAL!}

In 5 days, Josh and I will have been married for 9 years! What an amazing journey! Thanks babe for "choosing" me....
Happy Anniversary!

Unsure.....

2010-09-11T23:25:00.003-04:00

complicated....lately I have been dealing with inner emotions. In the past few weeks/months, I've gone out to help and console my mother with the care of my dad. They have found no living cancer cells near the tumor however the damage to his bladder system is unrepairable. Which makes his continence nearly nil and my dad {the "proud"} man he is, will not wear a depends to help with his inability.

On top of this, my dad's dementia is starting to show its true colors. My mom has to show him daily the front of the house so he knows that it is his home, consistently pointing him in the right direction to get to their bedroom.

My last visit to my parents home was to prepare my dad to have a silver dollar size melanoma removed from his face. I shaved his face, combed his hair, helped him stand and walk to his recliner. Once seated there, I continued to trim his nails that had grown longer than my own. How should I feel, watching, helping, this strong man....who took care of me! not be able to care for himself. Often when I'm walking from one room to another with him he says "Honey, I wish I could do things by myself, but I'm grateful you are here to help your mom. I wouldn't let her do some things that you do."

Do I sit back and enjoy "his reality" of traveling along the frontier when we're watching John Wayne? He often has mom or I check on the cattle or the men working in the field. Or do I sit back and cry because my dad is slowly disappearing into dementia....I will cry but not yet! I will enjoy even if its just for a cattle drive! He's here and he smiles through somehow!

Random Uploads

2010-08-17T21:12:00.002-04:00

The screen on our camera is broken so I have no way to know what pictures are on it. {feels like an old school camera waiting on film developing!} I decided to plug it into the computer and see what popped up! These are some random pictures from our activities this summer...

HOT?!

2010-07-26T18:33:00.004-04:00

Sunday afternoon, we went to have lunch at my parents' house after church. My sister and her children joined us. As we relaxed after eating, I heard coming from the playroom, Kelsy say "Isabelle, don't you think she's hot?" My eyes got huge in shock! The following conversation occurred...

Mom: "Kelsy come here please."
Kelsy: "Yes, Mom"
Mom: "What did you just ask Isabelle?"
Kelsy: "Mom...." in her most embarrassed voice
Mom: "Well, Kelsy."
Kelsy: "I asked her if she thought the girl on TV was hot."
Mom: "What does that mean?"
Kelsy: "Its like if she thinks she's pretty."
Mom: "Next time, ask Isabelle if she thinks she's pretty, ok?"
Kelsy: "Ok."

Then off to the playroom she went. Later that evening, I told Josh about our conversation. So we called Kelsy down to our room to discuss where she learned this slang from. At first, she was very worried that she would get in trouble. After explaining that Mom and Dad want to make sure that she is learning appropriate things, this was her explanation of "Hot"

"I pulled my hair back while getting water at school and later Jacob told me Russell said that I was hot."

{Yes, Kelsy, but how did you learn what "hot" meant?}

"I just asked Jacob and he said that it meant I was cute."

All I could picture was one of the old time movies with a salsy scene of a girl pulling her hair back, getting water out of the fountain in slow motion while the boys drool! Yeesh! And she's only in first grade!

{Needless to say, Josh and I had a good laugh later}

Growing Up

2010-07-21T23:01:00.004-04:00

Yesterday was the first night that Petey slept in his "big boy" bed...

Tonight, this is what I found...

J.J. is such a GREAT big brother! Especially when his baby brother is learning to sleep in a toddler bed!

Farrell boys go fishing

2010-06-20T22:44:00.006-04:00

One day Caroline told me to ask JJ what he drew at school that day. When I did, he produced a picture of him and I fishing together. This was a loaded picture to me, because I've always wanted to be a daddy that took his kids/boys fishing, camping, etc, but I had not done it yet. So, it obviously was something JJ was thinking and wishing for. Well, the next couple of days he asked me several times when I would take him fishing. My dilemma was that I have no fishing gear and I had only been a couple of times myself, so I honestly didn't really know what to do. Luckily, my buddy Ben is a firefighter in Portsmouth and we were able to find a day off together to take JJ. Thanks Ben for teaching me the basics.

Here is the little fisherman in his seat next to the expert fisherman/teacher, Ben.

And this is JJ's first fish! Boy, was he excited.We went to a neighborhood park nearby that our kids have come to call "the duck park". A little park by a large pond with lots of duck, geese, turtles, and what do you know....a bunch of little fish. If you ask JJ, they were all big ones.

Ben was kind enough to let JJ real in the bigger ones too.

A Week in the Life of Kelsy Mae...

2010-06-13T19:47:00.012-04:00

Kelsy has had a very busy week with the approach of school's end.

Thursday morning, her dad, Petey and I were able to attend the Kindergarten's Author's Celebration. Her class compiled a collection of short stories which each has written and they took turns reading their story with Mrs. Markham, their teacher. Each child wrote about their favorite pair of shoes. Kelsy choose to write about a pair of pink flip flops...which she doesn't own?! When I asked her about the flip flops she quickly explained "Mom, its just a story." {In her most "duh" type voice} But she further explained that she likes to wear them to the beach. This would be true because my daughter is definitely a beach bum! Afterwards, we joined the class for Krispy Kreme donuts and juice. Yum!

Below is a picture of Kelsy and Ms. Fox, the class' teacher assistant {or known to Kelsy's world has her BFF!} I'm so very grateful that Ms. Fox was placed in Kelsy's life. She's made her transition to school wonderful and has brought so much joy into her little life. Kelsy writes notes of love, makes bracelets, and takes flowers to Katie...we even picked out BFF bracelets, yes, the ones you remember from your childhood, for her to take to school tomorrow. After talking with Ms. Fox on Thursday, we've decided to arrange for some BFF dates so that Kelsy doesn't go through a serious withdrawal from seeing Ms. Fox daily.

As you might have noticed, Kelsy's hair was curly...this was in preparation for her dance recital rehearsal Thursday night....Geez, is momma glad Thursday is over! She was so adorable! She performed a Tap routine to Elvis Presley's Blue Suede Shoes. She absolutely LOVES performing on stage! Hopefully, I can upload the video for posting soon. {one thing at a time...sigh}

We were very grateful that all of her grandparents could view her recital on Friday night...but I was overjoyed that my dad was able to have the energy and strength to endure the long evening. :')

Now....our final event for the week!!! Kelsy has been talking about donating her hair to Locks of Love. Especially since Granddaddy has been diagnosed with cancer. However, her only condition was that she wait until after her dance recital so she could have curls. Well, she did it! 9 inches gone! The salon didn't know if L.O.L. would take that length, however, they informed me that a woman will take donations and is making wigs for children with cancer right here at CHKD Hospital. So, tomorrow morning I'll be calling to get the information! Isn't her hair just too cute?!

What an amazing daughter we have!

Somewhere....

2010-05-13T20:07:00.002-04:00

a village is missing their IDIOT!!!

My friend, Jenn, posted this on her facebook....I couldn't help but laugh hysterically!!! I know its a compact car but DANG!

Comedy Central Mocking Jesus Christ‏

2010-05-12T19:27:00.006-04:00

The Comedy Central network has a long history of denigrating
Jesus Christ and the Christian faith. Now, they are developing
a new series called "JC" that will openly mock Jesus and give
Comedy Central even more time and latitude to increase their
attacks on a religion practiced by 80 percent of Americans.

Just weeks ago, Comedy Central censored a depiction of the
prophet Mohammad after intense Muslim protest. But Christians
are fair game!

I am outraged by this unabashed double standard, and I'm
protesting against Comedy Central and its parent company Viacom
and their plans to air this show mocking Christians.

I have just added my name to a Media Research Center petition,
and I'm urging you to do the same by clicking here now:


http://www.mrcaction.org/555/petition.asp?PID=24673876&NID=1

We cannot allow the Hollywood Elite and the left-wing media
to continue to savage Christians. That's why I'm taking
action and I hope you will do the same.


Thanks for joining with me.

Gotcha!

2010-04-25T16:45:00.004-04:00

Vote for Fun Forest, Chesapeake, VA

2010-04-24T09:22:00.002-04:00

On April 1, 2010, someone set fire to the Fun Forest playground at Chesapeake City Park leaving in its place only charred ruins. The following week was spring break for area children, with Fun Forest being a likely destination for the younger ones. What greeted them as they entered the park was crime scene tape surrounding a beloved playground. The park was conceived by the Chesapeake Division of the Hampton Roads Chamber of Commerce in 1994, and built by nearly 2,000 volunteers from all over the city and beyond. At the time, it was called the largest handicapped-accessible park on the East Coast. Already the Chesapeake Department of Parks and Recreation has received contributions and offers of help from many people outraged by the destruction of Fun Forest, but much more is needed. Please send the Sears Lawn & Garden Crew to Chesapeake and help us rebuild Fun Forest.

Go to this website to vote:

Chesapeake Fun Forest

Daddy is INSANE!

2010-04-14T14:14:00.010-04:00

So, I bought a 25 year old Bronco that I've been wanting for some time now (a new toy to replace the soon to be leaving old one-my bike) and I bought a full size one versus the even older style that is smaller (they look Jeepish), so we could take mountain camping trips as a family. Well, last week was spring break and I was able to get a day off, giving me all of spring break to go camping, so we did....leaving Wednesday morning and returning Friday night. The biggest part of the adventure though, was NO MOMMY! Yup, daddy took a 6 yr old, 4 yr old, and 18 month old all by himself. It was a lot of fun and big learning experience too. Daddy now knows that Mr Petey simply cannot wait for food to cook over a fire when he is ready to eat....that boy has a one track mind when his tummy is empty!The campground we went to is called Big Meadows, it is inside of the Shenandoah National Park off of Skyline Dr. Mapquest puts it about 3.5 hours from home, but it took 4.5 with our roadside picnic lunch. We decided on this campground after my firefighter buddy Brent told me what fun he had as a kid seeing deer in his campsite there. Brent was right! We saw about 20-25 deer over the 3 days and had them come within 10 feet or so in our campground. Kelsy had fun trying to pet one!

Luckily I had a big helper...JJ learned how to assemble tent poles!

On day 2, the kids wanted to see the waterfall I mentioned was close to camp. Close is a relative term by the way. After hiking 1.5 miles over some aggressive terrain, we made it to the waterfall. Kelsy and JJ are great hikers and of course so is their daddy. Petey however has been walking all of 4 months, so he is also an exceptional hiker since his hiking consists of sitting in daddy's arms! Of course the kids had to play in the water and since their daddy thought enough ahead to carry a bag full of water, snacks, a beach towel, and swim suits, they got their wish.

Do the kids look cold to you in the near freezing mountain water?Day 2 ending with a cold light rain, leading to a sleepless night for me since all I heard throughout the night was vehicles being started to crank up car heaters. The first 2 days were near mid 70 degree temps with the night of day 2 and morning of day 3 being in the upper 40s, so most campers were dressed for warm weather! It was not a lot of fun to take down a tent with a thin layer of ice on it.

Day 3 was daddy time, we went on a hunt for a off road trail I've been told of another 45 minutes from the campground. It was a hunt because there are no maps to get there and no signage to find it, but find it we did and the Bronco was broken in right with its first mountain trail ride.

The rest of the trip was pretty uneventful, other than a rear tire blow out at 70mph on the interstate. Thankfully, I am an exceptional driver and was able to bring the fish-tailing, lifted Bronco under control without incident. I am very grateful I headed inspiration to not leave the spare tire at home!

For Your Viewing Pleasure

2010-04-13T21:42:00.008-04:00

Here's a few pics of the fun things we've been doing this spring!

Riding with the top off Josh's Bronco...
How many marshmellows can you stuff into your mouth?

Camping with Daddy in the mountains...

Mac wasn't just made to carry Lightning McQueen...but also sissy's barrettes!

Buddies

2010-03-24T20:56:00.002-04:00

My friend, Maria, came across a dachshund in need. His owner had rescued him from the SPCA. However, since he is in the navy and going to school, poor thing was spending most of the day in his crate. So, he decided to give him back. Well, the SPCA said that they would put him to sleep if he came back and we can't have that!!! Maria already has several dogs of her own and since he's an adorable dachshund like Buster...we're giving it a try!

Dante {not the name we'd choose but hey, he's 6, not gonna change it now} came to us today. He's neutered, up to date with shots for the next 3 years, leash, collar, bowls, and a 15 lb. bag of dog food. Dante is little compared to Buster and they're getting to know each other, but overall, I'd have to say they're getting along well.

Kelsy loves Dante...and Josh took him being here very well since he didn't know about him til he got home from work today! His question: Are you into the business of rescuing dogs now? Nope, but when they need a place, are set for a few years medically, and are already crate trained and house broken...what the heck!

Where Art Thou Daddy?

2010-03-06T19:06:00.003-05:00

In the past 108 consecutive hours (since Tuesday 6:00 am), Josh has been home for a sporadic total of 23 hours...most of that is sleep. Petey is very much a Daddy's boy.

After Josh was called into work on Wednesday night, I found Petey aimlessly walking around the house calling out "Da". Tonight I walked into my room to find him with Daddy's boots on.

Thankfully, tomorrow is Sunday, Josh has off from the fire department, and will not be working his construction business...We are in need of Daddy time!!! However, we are so blessed to have such a great Daddy who works hard so Momma can stay home and take care of our youngings.

Massanutten

2010-03-03T21:51:00.012-05:00

Last weekend, we had the opportunity to vacation at Massanutten Resort. Josh was able to get his snowboarding fix with the guys and the kids and I enjoyed the indoor waterpark...boy, am I ready for summer!

And the guys were so awesome with the kids...

Bathtime!

2010-03-01T16:25:00.003-05:00

Can we say its time for a bath?!

Kelsy's Second Tooth

2010-03-01T16:11:00.003-05:00

Kelsy was complaining for almost two weeks of her loose tooth hurting...so to give me sanity, Josh yanked it out!!!

Can you tell she was a little skeptical?!

My Baby Daughter is 6

2010-02-25T20:32:00.014-05:00

Kelsy turned 6 on Feb. 13! (Yes, i know, two weeks ago...) We had a busy day! Our friend, Colby, had his one year birthday party that day so we visited with him. And what a great surprise, his sister, Emma, gave Kelsy a birthday present at HIS party! It completely made her day! Arts and crafts with a Hannah Montana case to store it all in!

After lunch, we attended a baptism at church that I had the honor of speaking at. Kelsy loves attending baptisms! She's already planned her 8th birthday party/lunch for after hers...little Miss Party Planner!

Josh had to work at the fire station so we took cake and ice cream to the guys! How many little girls can say they had approximately 14 firefighters sing them Happy Birthday?!

And what a lucky duck?! We had her birthday party the following week so she got to make another wish! This year was Kelsy's year to have a BIG birthday and man did she ever!

That's right, Monster Trucks here we come! (definitely her daddy's girl!) And did you notice that its a Monster FIRE Truck! How awesome is that!

Let me back up for a minute....before we went to the rally, we had a wonderful party of pizza, cake, and ice cream at our home!

We played Pin the Spot on the Ladybug (Kelsy wanted the donkey but she was even more excited with the ladybug...she's Gramme's Bug!)

Then we had yummy food and very wonderful presents!

Then on the road to the MONSTER TRUCKS!!! What fun we had! The kids had a blast and the parents were exhausted...thanks to the men who assisted me!

What a great day! Happy Birthday, Kelsy!

Long ago, in a distant land

2010-02-23T21:12:00.015-05:00

Well, not really but it seems that way! About TWO weeks ago we traveled to DC as a family. Our trip was for three reasons:
1. temple
2. visit Chris and Evelyn
3. Josh a new toy

Although we all put those into different priorities :) , we were able to accomplish all but #1...and why didn't we get to attend the temple?

because we experienced snow that was deeper than Petey is tall! Needless to say our one night trip turned into a two night...but it was nice to see the cousins all snuggled up being snowed in for another night!

JJ had a blast playing with Uncle Chris and his guitar! He's our little musician in the making!

And Josh accomplished his goal of buying his "new" toy! Boy, did we have fun! JJ loved wiping out while being pulled on the boogie board (a sled, for those of us that don't see snow too often)

We were able to enjoy a nice extended visit with Chris, Evelyn, and Addie.

However, when it came time to leave, I expected for the drive to take a lot longer than normal but I never thought it would take us two hours just to get off their street!!! Yes, right after Chris told me NOT to get the van stuck...I get it stuck! And poor Josh and Chris shoveled, and shoveled, and shoveled til Josh decided to go to Home Depot, buy a chain, and yank my van out using his new toy! Guess its not just a toy, uh?

The snow was gorgeous, something we would not have seen if we didn't take one of my husband's many random adventures.

Am I a FIREMAN yet?

2010-02-03T21:11:00.001-05:00

Thanks Barbara for sharing...

In Phoenix , Arizona , a 26 year-old mother stared down at her 6 year-old son, who was dying of terminal leukemia.

Although her heart was filled with sadness,
She also had a strong feeling of determination.
Like any parent, she wanted her son to grow up &
Fulfill all his dreams. Now, that was no longer possible..

The leukemia would see to that. But she still wanted her son's dream to come true.

She took her son' s hand and asked, 'Billy, did you ever think about what you wanted to be once you grew up? Did you ever dream and wish what you would do with your life?'

Mommy, 'I always wanted to be a fireman when I grew up.'

Mom smiled back and said, 'Let's see if we can make your wish come true.'

Later that day she went to her local fire Department in Phoenix , Arizona , where she met Fireman Bob, who had a heart as big as Phoenix !

She explained her son's final wish and asked if it might be possible to give her 6 year-old son a ride around the block on a fire engine.

Fireman Bob said, 'Look, we can do better than that. If you'll have your son ready at seven o'clock Wednesday morning, we'll make him an honorary Fireman for the whole day. He can come down to the fire station, eat with us, go out on all the fire calls, the whole nine yards!

And if you'll give us his sizes, we'll get a real fire uniform for him, with a real fire hat - not a toy -- one-with the emblem of the Phoenix Fire Department on it, a yellow slicker like we wear and rubber boots.'

'They're all manufactured right here in Phoenix , so we can get them fast.'

Three days later Fireman Bob picked up Billy, dressed him in his uniform and escorted him from his hospital bed to the waiting hook and ladder truck.

Billy got to sit on the back of the truck and help steer it back to the fire station. He was in heaven.

There were three fire calls in Phoenix that day and Billy got to go out on all three calls.

He rode in the different fire engines, the Paramedic's' van,
And even the fire chief's car.

He was also videotaped for the
Local news program.

Having his dream come true,
With all the love and attention that was lavished upon him, so deeply touched Billy, that he lived three months longer than any doctor thought possible.

One night all of his vital signs began to drop dramatically and the head nurse, who believed in the hospice concept - that no one should die alone - began to call the family members to the hospital.

Then she remembered the day Billy had spent as a Fireman, so she called the Fire Chief and
Asked if it would be possible to send a fireman in uniform to the hospital to be with Billy as he made his transition.

The chief replied, 'We can do better than that. We'll be there in five minutes. Will you please do me a favor?

When you hear the sirens screaming and see the lights flashing, will you announce over the PA system that there is not a fire?'

'It's the department coming to see one of its finest members one more time. And will you open the window to his room?'

About five minutes later a hook and ladder truck arrived at the hospital and extended its ladder up to Billy's third floor open window--------
16 fire-fighters climbed up the ladder into Billy's room.

With his mother's permission, they hugged him and held him and told him how much they LOVED him.
With his dying breath, Billy looked up at the fire chief and said,

'Chief, am I really a fireman now?'

'Billy, you are, and the Head Chief, Jesus, is holding your hand,' the chief said.

With those words, Billy smiled and said, 'I know, He's been holding my hand all day, and
The angels have been singing.'

He closed his eyes one last time.

And we have {SNOW}

2010-01-30T20:44:00.002-05:00

Oh, what a fun day!!! At least 6 inches and a little more expected overnight! Josh was going to take the lid off our trash can to use as a sled but instead our awesome neighbor, Norma, brought us a boogie board to use...check out the fun we had!

Mimi even took a turn on the sled!!!

Teebble Toddle

2010-01-26T09:41:00.006-05:00

And we now have a toddler!

{Aura}

2010-01-14T11:23:00.007-05:00

My sister once asked if Firefighter wives have this aura that draws us to Firefighter merchandise. My answer...most definitely and this is why!

"Lights and Sirens"

I want to be like my Daddy when I grow up!!

The Few Nuts

2010-01-13T12:12:00.003-05:00

Yesterday's conversation...

Mom: "JJ, you're gonna drive me crazy!"
JJ: "No, mom, I'm gonna drive you NUTS!"

Today's conversation...

Kelsy: "Mom, I know I drive you nuts sometimes."
Mom: "How do you know that?"
Kelsy: "Cause I'm a little CRAZY!"

Question: If they know they're going to send me to the NUT HOUSE, why don't they do something about it?

Guess our family is truly like brownies, mostly sweetness with a {WHOLE LOT OF NUTS!}

Oh, how I love my children...

Yummy!

2010-01-12T18:52:00.008-05:00

Last Monday, after my surgery, Josh wanted hot chocolate. Well, nobody has asked for it in this house for a long time so I didn't have the instant stuff {you know, the daddy friendly kind ;) } He got adventurous and used a recipe in my Better Homes Cook Book. Not only did we have homemade hot chocolate but he and the kids made Cookies on a Stick using a recipe from Kelsy's first cookbook. {and yes, that's a home depot apron that JJ's wearing}

FHE treats were very yummy that night...was it because I didn't make them or because it was so much fun watching Josh in the kitchen with the kids?! Either way, we've had hot chocolate for two FHE in a row...shall we go for three?

Here are some random photo of the kiddies...aren't they adorable?! I just want to pinch their little cheeks!

December Fun!

2010-01-05T14:45:00.003-05:00

What an awesome holiday season we had! It started of with driving to South Carolina to attend Josh's little brother's Nuclear "A" school graduation. We also got another treat in SC when we were reunited with Josh's older sister whom much of the family hadn't seen in a few years!

After graduation, the Farrell Clan traveled to VA to unit with the other 3 Farrell siblings! This was the first time since, well, Josh and I can't remember, that everyone was together! What a joy it was to see all the cousins smile and play with each other! Here are a few pictures of our experiences!

2009-12-11T18:14:00.002-05:00

My most recent post was about our "earnings" as stay at home moms....now check out this wonderful job description.

POSITION TITLE :
Mother, Mom, Mama, Mommy, Momma, Ma

JOB DESCRIPTION:
Long term, team players needed, for challenging permanent work in an, often chaotic environment. Candidates must possess excellent communication and organizational skills and be willing to work variable hours, which will include evenings and weekends and frequent 24 hour shifts on call. Some overnight travel required, including trips to primitive camping sites on rainy weekends and endless sports tournaments in far away cities. Travel expenses not reimbursed. Extensive courier duties also required.

RESPONSIBILITIES:
The rest of your life. Must be willing to be hated, at least temporarily, until someone needs $5. Must be willing to bite tongue repeatedly. Also, must possess the physical stamina of a pack mule and be able to go from zero to 60 mph in three seconds flat in case, this time, the screams from the backyard are not someone just crying wolf. Must be willing to face stimulating technical challenges, such as small gadget repair, mysteriously sluggish toilets and stuck zippers. Must screen phone calls, maintain calendars and coordinate production of multiple homework projects. Must have ability to plan and organize social gatherings for clients of all ages and mental outlooks. Must be willing to be indispensable one minute, an embarrassment the next. Must handle assembly and product safety testing of a half million cheap, plastic toys, and battery operated devices. Must always hope for the best but be prepared for the worst. Must assume final, complete accountability for the quality of the end product. Responsibilities also include floor maintenance and janitorial work throughout the facility.

POSSIBILITY FOR ADVANCEMENT & PROMOTION :
Virtually none. Your job is to remain in the same position for years, without complaining, constantly retraining and updating your skills, so that those in your charge can ultimately surpass you

PREVIOUS EXPERIENCE :
None required unfortunately. On-the-job training offered on a continually exhausting basis.

WAGES AND COMPENSATION :
Get this! You pay them! Offering frequent raises and bonuses. A balloon payment is due when they turn 18 because of the assumption that college will help them become financially independent. When you die, you give them whatever is left. The oddest thing about this reverse-salary scheme is that you actually enjoy it and wish you could only do more.

And I wonder why sometimes I want to change my name!

If only

2009-12-11T17:51:00.012-05:00

Statement for a Stay at Home mom in Virginia Beach...

Earning Statement

For the year ending: December 2009

Job title

Hourly Rate

Hours worked

Housekeeper	$8.93	858
Day Care Center Teacher	$12.11	764
Cook	$12.37	681
Computer Operator	$14.19	478
Facilities Manager	$31.82	447
Van Driver	$14.32	380
Psychologist	$33.55	374
Laundry Machine Operator	$9.11	374
Janitor	$9.38	369
Chief Executive Officer	$63.67	286
Interior Designer	$16.95	234
Administrative Assistant	$15.19	234
Event Planner	$23.17	208
Bookkeeper	$15.27	208
General Maintenance Worker	$13.10	0
Groundskeeper	$11.33	208
Nutritionist	$20.71	681
Staff Nurse - RN	$25.43	260
Plumber	$14.82	0
Logistics Analyst	$20.44	0

Regular Hourly Rate	$18.17	2,080
Over Time Rate	$27.26	4,966

Total Value:

$173,160

Shoot, Josh could quit and be my assistant!!!

Its TOO Early!!!

2009-12-10T19:04:00.005-05:00

When we arrived at dance class tonight, it came to my attention that it was Family and Friends Night...which means the place was packed!! We were able to view the class from start to finish and the girls performed a routine for us.

If you notice, Kelsy is trying to talk to someone while she's dancing...that's not me she's so interested in!!!

This is Nicholas. A boy from Kelsy's school class whom she talks about OFTEN. Kelsy has informed us that she plays Batman with Nicholas during recess (of course, she's batgirl). Josh has asked Kelsy why she doesn't play with the girls...her reply "The girls just play on the playground, I like playing Batman with Nicholas. It's fun!" Nicholas has a sister is Kelsy's dance class (so we learned tonight!) and she was googly eyed the entire night!!!! And like normal boys, he's completely clueless to Kelsy's little crush. His mom had never heard of Kelsy til tonight! But she and grandma were sure getting a kick out of watching my little girl give their little boy a WHOLE BUNCH of attention!!!!! I'm sure they'll hear more now...Nicholas informed us that he would like to have a playdate with Kelsy. SHEESH!

You only love us for our...

2009-11-25T21:18:00.003-05:00

May your stuffing be tasty
May your turkey be plump,
May your potatoes and gravy
Have never a lump.
May your yams be delicious
And your pies take the prize,
And may your Thanksgiving dinner
Stay off your thighs!
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

"og"

2009-11-19T08:19:00.001-05:00

Petey's new word...his best bud! Buster the "og"

Just to get in your head....

2009-11-17T15:15:00.004-05:00

A lovely little picture to get in your head right before Thanksgiving meals come around!

How pumpkin pie is made.....

All in the Family...

2009-11-14T15:39:00.010-05:00

In October, we had pictures taken with my family. He are just a few. They turned out gorgeous!!! Thanks Matt!

A Laugh for the Day

2009-11-09T11:18:00.001-05:00

I stole this from my friend, Kate...if you love Paula, you'll love this! My abs hurt after I watched this!

My Alarm Clock

2009-11-08T20:06:00.003-05:00

Since daylight savings, JJ has been waking up at about 5 o'clock every morning...yikes! However, this morning I woke up to JJ singing his favorite song as loud as possible with Petey giggling in his crib...it was kind of hard to get mad :-)

Just a BUNCH of fun!

2009-11-04T14:48:00.003-05:00

So, its been two months since our last post....yea, I know! Slacker! But I'm gonna catch up with the month of October!

Okay...so I cheated with the slideshows. But at least I'm up to date now!

"Friday's Soup"

2009-08-29T21:24:00.003-04:00

Lately Kelsy has been wanting A LOT of Mommy attention which is often difficult with a needy baby. However, she's been wanting to have a party. {this entitles her getting dressed, setting her little table with table cloth down to the center piece, invitations, etc.}

Yesterday after breakfast Kelsy asked if I wanted to come to her restaurant. So, Petey and I headed upstairs. We were invited into JJ's room which had the table nicely adorned with a center piece and place settings. (Kelsy even had on her little apron that Aunt Meredith gave her.) She quickly brought me a hand drawn menu and asked what I would like to drink. She gave me the only option of root beer so I had "root beer" water.

It was so cute to see her go from the dining room (JJ's room) to the kitchen (her room) and watch her prepare food at her kitchen center. My meal consisted of macaroni and cheese and a root beer float for dessert (I detest root beer floats...yuck!) and of course a check was brought and a well deserved tip {kiss} was given. Such a GREAT little server!

Later on in the van, I asked her what she had named her restaraunt, and after a brief moment she said "Friday's Soup." Why, I asked....cause it's only open on Friday, mom!

Highly Recommend, Reservations a MUST! Visit Chef Kelsy at "Friday's Soup"

Baby Smooth

2009-08-25T10:21:00.002-04:00

Petey decided he wanted his whole body to be as smooth as his bottom...

A Sister's Canvas

2009-07-23T12:45:00.002-04:00

"Mom, come see my face!!!" That's what I heard coming from upstairs. This is what I saw!JJ wanted to be an angry monster so, Kelsy, being the artist she is, took it upon herself to transform JJ! Knowing that they were washable markers, I had to restrain myself from laughing!

The joys of children!!!

What will you do?!

2009-07-14T09:10:00.000-04:00

This guy's video on youtube has been so popular that Obama
called him personally. He said that he was very disturbed with the video and

invited him to the White House. Obama also said he wanted the White House to

handle the Press and not to talk about the video or the White House visit.
That's interesting.

Watch it now. This may be the best six minutes invested in
your future
You may have to turn your Sound Control up some.

Thanks Rob for sending this to me!

Kid Pics...

2009-06-14T19:00:00.009-04:00

For those that don't check out my facebook, here's the most recent portraits of the kiddos!

Weigh In

2009-06-05T16:15:00.002-04:00

So, I set a goal to lose 3.2 lbs. this week and reach my 10% mark of 16 lbs. At weigh in this morning, I lost 2.4 lbs. which makes the total:15.2 lbs.

3.2 lbs. was a lot to lose in one week so I'm okay with the 2.4! At least I didn't gain and it means this week all that is needed for the 16 lbs. is .8 lb!

My reward when I reach my 10% body weight loss: a pedicure!

Besides, this week I reached the half way point of my ultimate goal of 30 lbs.! Half way to my Florida Trip (without kids)!!!

Allergies

2009-06-02T19:04:00.002-04:00

Tonight the kids had a few friends over for a play date and dinner while Josh worked at the fire station. Everyone was done with their food except JJ...and they were waiting for him to finish so they could have popsicles.

Mom: JJ finish your dinner.

JJ: Mom, I think I'm allergic to eating more food.

The things children say!!!

Weigh In

2009-05-29T09:39:00.001-04:00

Josh is working today so I didn't get to stay for the meeting since I had all the kiddies but I did weigh in.

Lost: 1.4 lbs. Total: 12.8 lbs.

I'll take the little weight loss after the holiday weekend with cook outs! My goal next week is to reach my 10% weight loss: 16lbs.! Got 3.2 lbs. to shed this week!

No More Than You Can Handle...

2009-05-24T15:36:00.003-04:00

Supposedly, our Heavenly Father doesn't give you any more trials at one time than what He knows you can handle...He must know me a lot more than I know myself!!!

My previous post has explained the mishap of my 7 month old and his two skull fractures. Well, I'm really not in the frame of mind right now to explain the "how" but Kelsy was attacked by the TV in the playroom...lets just say she won't be climbing on chairs again! We ended up at CHKD's Emergency Department AGAIN this weekend. (Our Medical Bill Budget has officially been exceeded for the month!)

After a morning of x-rays, manipulation, and examines, the outcome was that Kelsy has a broken femur... luckily, its just a hairline fracture so no surgery is needed. She can not put any weight on it and can not use crutches (a little to uncoordinated). So, what does that mean? Mom and Dad have the privilege of lifting into bed, out of bed, into a chair, out of the chair, onto the toilet, and...well you get the idea. Josh's wood floors have been a blessing, its funny to watch her scoot around on her bottom! And we have been blessed with a wagon so when I have to take the kids off I have a spot for her and Petey to sit. (My hips are only so big! Can't carry both at the same time!)

Since its Memorial Day Weekend, we have to wait til Tuesday to make an appointment with the orthopedic doctor for the permanent cast. How long will it be on? Not sure yet...but we will opt for the waterproof cast seeing as summer is here!

Attention: NEW MOON

2009-05-22T21:48:00.002-04:00

So, my friend Queli posted this on her blog and I just couldn't resist but share it with my Twilight gurus! Jacob sure grew up nicely...

WOOHOO!!!!

2009-05-22T21:36:00.002-04:00

So...last week my husband really kicked my butt into gear with a nice pep talk about my weight loss or maybe lack there of! I hadn't been to Weight Watchers in 5 weeks and last Saturday I went to weigh in. I put on 2 lbs. which I thought wasn't bad since I hadn't been following the program.

This week was another story...

I followed all the good health guidelines that Weight Watchers gives and journaled everything that went into my mouth! And the results at today's weigh in.....

I LOST 6.2 LBS. in ONE WEEK!!!! Weight loss to date: 11.4 lbs.

Husbands...they know when you need a good swift kick in the butt!!!! Thanks Honey!!!

Why I don't get ANYTHING done!

2009-05-20T09:16:00.002-04:00

This is what happens when I try to write on our blog!!!!!

Trip to Kitty Hawk

2009-05-20T09:03:00.007-04:00

Earlier this month, we were able to go to the Outer Banks. We reunited with old friends from our Singles Branch Days! Here are just a few pics...

Humpty Dumpty

2009-05-15T16:29:00.002-04:00

For those who are unaware, our family had a bit of a scare last week. Let me back up a little...

JJ is getting excited about sharing a room with Petey. So, lately he's been asking if Petey can come upstairs to play with him. No problem especially since Petey isn't crawling...well, about 2 weeks ago Petey became mobile!!!

Last Wednesday, JJ asked for Petey to come upstairs so Petey and I went up to JJ's room to play. I needed to run downstairs a moment. I told JJ to keep the door closed so Petey will stay in the room.

First...bad move by mom. What was I thinking asking a 4 year old to keep the door closed and watch his baby brother.
Second...Petey is crawling a little faster than I thought.

Josh and I were downstairs and heard a few thuds then a huge cry! Yep...you guessed it! Petey took a great fall down the staircase...all the way down! Josh quickly went into paramedic mode and stripped Petey down to his diaper checking over every inch of him. He looked okay...inconsolable but okay. We kept an eye on him for a few minutes. Bumps started forming on each side of his head. Petey was alert but we decided to have him checked out.

We went to Bayside Hospital where they did a CT scan on Petey. The results...Petey has two skull fractures and swelling to go with them. They immediately transported him to CHKD for further work ups. After a full skeletal x-ray and an overnight stay, the diagnoses...only the two fractures and no brain damage. I guess the skull did its job!

We are home and Petey is almost back to being our happy baby. A constant eye must be on him since the slightest bonk of the head could result in more damage. We have an appointment in 3 months at CHKD to make sure the fractures have healed properly...the fractures don't seem to be bothering him too much but the 5 teeth that are coming through at the same time are!

JJ's Birthday

2009-04-13T20:09:00.001-04:00

So, I haven't been feeling well the past few days. He's just a quick overlook of JJ's Birthday!

Our Little Tigger

2009-04-04T20:00:00.003-04:00

Petey will bounce for a good hour in this thing...especially while watching Kelsy on the computer! But the bouncing doesn't stop there! Whenever we go to Gramme Allen's house, Petey bruises her thighs from bouncing so hard in her lap! Thanks Mom for loving your grandson enough to deal with the "pain" of laughter.

Cheese Wagon

2009-04-02T13:48:00.003-04:00

We were riding down the road today and this is kind of how the conversation went:

JJ: Look mom, a school bus!
Mom: Its a cheese wagon!
Kelsy: No its not!
Mom: Sure it is, it's orange like cheese!
JJ: Mom, ITS A SCHOOL BUS!
Mom: Okay, it's a bus.

After a long pause,

Kelsy: Mom, it can't be a cheese wagon.
Mom: Why not?
Kelsy: Because cheese is all orange and the bus has a white roof!

I just love how kids come to justify their thinking!

6x6 Tag

2009-03-27T09:24:00.003-04:00

So, Josh's sister, Evelyn, tagged us...

Rules:
1. Go to your pictures on your computer
2. Go to your 6Th folder
3. Go to your sixth picture
4. Post it
5. Blog about it:

This is Christmas 2005. Oddly enough, its a picture of Aunt Evelyn reading a Christmas book to Kelsy and her cousin Ria.

So, since Evelyn tagged her siblings, I'm gonna tag a few friends! Meredith, Kate, Robin, Megan, Queli...your turn!

Movin' and Groovin'

2009-03-23T14:56:00.002-04:00

So, during quiet time today, I left Petey on the blanket in the living room while I checked my email. When I came back this is what I found...Petey under the coffee table! I had placed him on his back with his head at the swing end of the blanket. Hopefully I'll be able to observe his movement next time! He's obviously very pleased with his ability to get around!

Official Soccer Mom

2009-03-22T17:51:00.007-04:00

This year we decided to sign Kelsy and JJ up to participate in their first sport and having the father that they do, "we" (more like he) chose soccer! Their first games were yesterday and here are a few pictures of the event!

Kelsy's game was first and she had a blast! Kelsy doesn't have an understanding of competition yet. Grama Farrell observed her getting blocked from the ball and when the girl stepped in front of Kelsy, well, our outgoing little girl tried to make conversation! Not exactly the object of the game!

JJ, on the other hand, showed his competitive side very well! We had a few temper flares when the ball was stolen by the other team. However, JJ is definitely a little Josh! He has the objective of the game down! He scored his team's first goal and his getting the hang of dribbling the ball down the field!

They were great first games! We were very fortunate to have both sets of grandparents, the Allens and the Farrells, there to cheer on our little athletes! We're going to have a fun filled spring with games every Saturday!

Buster...

2009-03-03T22:00:00.004-05:00

We are excited to announce our newest addition!!!! Buster joined us tonight from a great family who did not have the time to devote to him. We're so excited and blessed with the circumstances from which he came. I noticed the ad on craigslist for him and immediately emailed for more info. Upon telling them about our story, they were impressed to bring Buster to us. Kind of ironic though, they called him Buddy and we (Caroline and Buster) share the same birthday!

Needless to say, we are calling him Buster so we do not forget our Buddy. He'll be a year next Friday. the 13th. He was just taken to the vet last month and is up to date on all shots for the year (we have the documentation!), as well, we have his flea and heart worm meds for the next year. Brian and Brittany accepted a lot less for him than the bill from the vet they paid last month so we are quite blessed!

Kelsy and JJ don't have any clue that we got him tonight so we'll see what their reaction is in the morning!

Kelsy's Birthday

2009-03-01T21:11:00.009-05:00

so, like I said...I am posting a few pics from Kelsy's Birthday Party.

Kelsy wanted a Littlest Pet Shop cake and the only way to accomplish this was for me to make it...I think it turned out pretty good!

Kelsy wanted to do two things...build something and have a pinata. So, here we are making picture frames and attempting to bust the pinata.

I would love to take more time but I have a squirmy four month old on my lap!!!

Weigh In

2009-03-01T19:10:00.000-05:00

I went for my weekly weigh in yesterday. I'm supposed to go on Friday but Josh had to work. I needed to lose 2.8 lbs to keep with my 2 lb average. I lost 2 lbs which I'll gladly take! I'm only short .8 lbs which can easily be made up if I just keep working. I'll take every little bit! Total : 7.2 lbs

I'm Lazy!

2009-02-27T09:53:00.002-05:00

So, I've been really bad about the whole blogging thing the past couple of weeks! We haven't had too much go on...Kelsy turned 5 (man, I'm getting old!) and we went to court about Buddy's murder.

Kelsy had a great party...she wanted to invite everyone she knows but do to limited space in our home, we could only have a few friends. And it was a packed house with the few that were here! She was very intent on "building something" and having a pinata. So, oriental trading supplied us with the cutest picture frames to "build" (I love the foamy stuff!) and a clown fish pinata. (Notice I didn't say Nemo because she had a Littlest Pet Shop Party and she made sure I knew it was not a nemo party!) She had a blast and is excited about going to school next year! I think her favorite gifts were the Vera Bradley purse my mother gave her (we just have to make her high maintenance so young), her soccer gear...season starts in two weeks, and Gramma giving her the materials for crocheting! She's done a few sessions of crocheting with Gramma and I think she's slowly catching on. (I'm really excited about the crocheting since my grandma hick taught me how to crochet!) I'll post pictures hopefully later today has time allows.

Josh and I went to court on Wednesday to witness in the case against the owner of the two pitbulls that killed Buddy. We were quite frustrated since it was continued til March 25. Mr. Washington (the owner) had at least three weeks to get an attorney and he waits til the day of court to invoke his right to one! So now, Josh has to take off work in order for us to go back! But there was a bright side to the matter! Mr. Washington finally took responsiblity and admitted ownership! He gave permission for the female to be put down and he wants the male back...but animal control is fighting on that! However, this gives us the green light to take him to court civilly in order to get compensation for our veterinary fees and replacement of the dog...not that we have yet! The kids and I are actually going to the pound today...Josh and I went Wednesday and fell in love with a white Shiba Inu! (well, I fell in love) Josh said I could look more into it. Of course, its not the english bulldog that he is dying to have but its a little more financially affordable and were helping out our great friends at animal control! I don't care what anyone says...there are some great people that work for animal control and do an awesome and loving job!!!

Weigh In

2009-02-14T10:19:00.001-05:00

So I went for my weekly weigh in yesterday. I needed to lose .8 lbs to keep with my 2 lb weekly average so I can meet my goal. Well, I lost 1.4 lbs! Its not much but as long as the scale keeps going down, I'll take the little bit! Total : 4.6 lbs

Happy Valentine's Day, Everyone!!!

Are you a H-E-R-O?

2009-02-09T08:55:00.003-05:00

My friend, Kate, just posted on her blog about this program. I highly encourage you to check it out. Because of an organ donor, my dad is living today!

H-E-R-O Movement is a non-profit organization whose goal is to significantly increase the number of people registered to become Organ Donors by providing information about registering and links to all state registries, and it was started by Nic Whitacre.

I have that I am a donor on my driver's license, but I have learned that that is a start, but not enough. I just registered on my state's donor registry. And, I have also talked to my husband about it.
I challenge you to be a HERO. It is so easy to go to this website to find out how to register to be an organ donor.
I then challenge you to forward the link to this web site to ten other potential HEROs.
You can be a HERO and save someone's life!

My Newest Goal

2009-02-06T11:18:00.002-05:00

While pregnant with Petey, I gained 60 pounds! Well, Petey will be 4 months old this upcoming week and I have lost 30 of those pounds! Okay, well, its not great but its something. After having JJ, I participated in the Weight Watchers program and lost 23 lbs. so I figured if it worked once it will work again! I probably could do the program without going to the meetings but I find myself cheating a lot...I guess I just need to be held accountable by someone else.

I went to my first meeting last week and weighed in at 168.6. My goal is to lose 30 lbs. by May 28. Why the specific goal and date? Well, I weighed 137 before getting pregnant and if I can be that little after 2 babies, I can after the third. And the date? Well, Josh gave me a little incentive...when I reach my goal, Petey and I can travel to Panama City Beach to visit one of my best friends! May not be much to some, but since becoming a stay at home mom, 5 days with just one child would be a treat (not to mention visiting a long distance friend)! May 28 is 15 weeks away, 2 pounds a week will give me 30! And May 28 just happens to be Josh's 5 day stretch off work so someone to watch Kelsy and JJ won't be such an issue.

I'm trying to come up with little milestones along the way. I think I've decided on the following:
10 lbs. = lunch out with friends (no children!)
20 lbs. = manicure and pedicure
30 lbs. = trip to Florida
Let me know if you have any other ideas...

Today I went to my meeting and lost 3.2 lbs this week! Average to reach my goal is 2 lbs. a week, YEAH! I'm already ahead!!!

Justice for Buddy--Maybe

2009-02-04T10:02:00.002-05:00

The animal control officer handling our case came by last night with some good news that should give our murdered dog some justice. She (A.C. officer) interviewed the pitbulls' owner's next door neighbor and she is willing to testify that the two pits where in the owner's back yard the day before the attacks. The officer also informed us that there were 4 calls that night; ours (our neighbor 2 doors down called) was #1, #2 was a dog owner on the street behind us who found his dog dead in his back yard, #3 was from the owner of another dog attacked (he is not willing to testify bc he is a Christian Scientist who feels that dogs should not ever be euthenized under any circumstances-according to the A.C. officer), and #4 was the owner of a fourth dog that witnessed through a window of her home, her dog being cornered with a pit on either side getting ready to pounce! So, the City of Va Beach is taking the owner of the pits to court on Feb 25th and Animal Control has subpeonaed 12 people! Oh, yeah....the pitbulls' owner already has a charge pending for "dog at large". What we've been told, is that if found guilty, the owner will be responsible for vet bills and possibly replacing the lost pets. I don't wish ill will on people, but we are very hopefull that this lying jerk is at least held accountable!

By the way, thank you to those who have offered words of sympathy. I for one (josh speaking here) never realized how much Buddy was a member of our family until this fateful incident occured last week.

Man's best friend-Ode to Buddy!

2009-02-02T00:05:00.004-05:00

Here's a little tribute to our dog taken from us this week-
Buddy was our second dog, we got him when Caroline was pregnant with Kelsy, we hoped Buddy would be a good companion to our other dog, Bubba. They were best of friends, too.

Buddy is a Beagle/Daschund mix...he looked like a Beagle but had the short Daschund legs. Buddy was very mild mannered, yet full of energy. Since we started having kids, Buddy was the perfect dog for children. He knew his place in the home and was very watchful over his "sister and brothers". We vividly remember when we

brought Petey home, how Buddy would come check on him every morning and how Buddy would also come let us know anytime that Petey was fussy...he would actually find us in the house and get our attention focused on Petey if he made any kind of sound! Buddy and JJ were best friends. Luckily, Buddy didn't mind being abused by his friend because the two of them loved to wrestle. They also like to lie down together on JJ's floor and watch cartoons...Buddy would scoot up to JJ, so he could put his arm over his dog while lying there...it was the cutest site to see! Buddy loved to lie on the stairs towards the top, but low enough that he could see what was happening below but also high enough to hear what the kids were doing in thier rooms. Buddy only barked while outside when strangers came around! Buddy loved it when we took him on our family walks and he adored car rides. Buddy was 5 years old when his life was cut short this Friday night.

We arrived home fri night to find 3 Animal Control trucks in front of our house. The officers informed us that Buddy was at the emergency vet on life support! Unless it is raining we leave our dog outside while we are away, it has never been a problem. The few times Buddy got out, he never got more than 5 or 6 house away and all i had to do was yell his name and he would return. Our neighbor heard some ferouscious barking and after finding our back gate open (mind you we always leave it latched closed) she called A.C. They arrived to find Buddy lying in the back yard, unresponsive and barely breathing. A.C. rushed him to the vet ER and they got him somewhat stablized. Buddy had two very large lacerations to his neck, the biggest being about 4 inches long and probably 2 inches deep, which severed his jugular vein. He also had double pneumothoraxes (collapsed lungs) and a heart rate of 20, it should be 120. With oxygen, two IVs, warming blankets, and a lot of medicine Buddy was hanging onto life by a thread. I had the unfortune of seeing him in this condition and being given the choice of continuing treatment or ending it. Treatment would mean several neck surgeries, blood transfusions, continuous air bleeding, and lots of medicine. The doctor told me to expect a minimum of a $3000 bill! How much does that suck!! I had to decide if my dog (my son's best friend) should live or die and the single largest factor was money. The decision was made to euthanize Buddy. The prognosis was not good, he had a chance, but not a good one. If Buddy lived he may not walk or who knows what else. So, there I am in an ER for dogs filling out paperwork to end Buddies life...oh, yeah the bill was $569.30
So, how did this happen? Two dogs (can you guess what kind?) were running loose in the neighborhood on a killing spree...Buddy was not the only one attacked, another dog was murdered that night. These two PitBulls somehow got into my fenced back yard and chewed up poor little Buddy. Luckily, A.C. got the stupid mutts and one had a chip with owner info in it. The unlucky part....the piece of garbage owner conveniently sold the dogs 2 weeks ago to guy in the neighborhood, but he can't remember his last name and he doesn't know where he lives! Who the hell sells a dog without a bill of sale, a name, a phone number, or something? If you cared about the dog enought to get a chip, I think you'd want to know a little something about his new owner, don't you think? To make it even more fun, it is not criminal if your dog attacks/kills another dog, but you'd better believe a human hurting a dog is criminal! So, A.C. won't give us the "former" owner's info until some waiting period is up. The murderous Pits will be euthanized in 10 days if no one claims them. So once i do get the loser's info i'll try and recover my vet bill and cost of dog replacement in small claims court. All i can say is, i hope he gets a full serving of Kharma!!!
We had a little funeral for Buddy after church today...thanks dad for helping dig. Kelsy and JJ put a toy of Buddy's and a couple of treats into the hole with him. We have been teaching our kids about death lately (sounds fun, right?). Thankfully, we have the Saviour as an example the kids know a little something about. Kelsy seems to grasp the concepts pretty good, which was evident when she was crying as we said goodbye to Buddy in the grave. JJ keeps asking when Buddy will come home. Caroline and I are doing fine, we have started looking online for dogs to adopt. We have both had our turns shedding some tears, though!